MORAL
PHI L O S O P H Y.
cares and labours to train them up to
decener,
virtuc,
and
lhe
various arts of
Jire.
NauHc has, thercfore, pro·
"ided them with {he:: man
affeétionatc: and anxious
tutors,
to aid their weaknefs, to fupply their \Vants, and to ae–
complilh them in
thore:
necelfary
arU
;- even {hcje own
parents,
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whom fhe has devolreu ,his ruigh'y char,e,
rcndered agreeable by the IDOn alJuring and powerful of
aH ties,
parcnnl
atTl.'élion.
BUl
unlefs both concur in
lhis
grateful
tan.:,
aad
concinue
their
joint
taboues, till
they have reared up and planted out ¡heir young colony,
it
mu(l hecome a prey to every rurle invader, and the
purpofe of nature
iD
the original unioo of the hum:\n paie
be defe.ted. Therefore our flrulture .. weJl a. condi·
tiOD
is an evide'ot ¡ndicuioo, that tbe human fe-xcs *are
ddlioed
foi
a more intimare,
foc
a moral and lafling u–
nion. 1t 'ppears likewife, th.t the principal end of mar–
riage is
~ot
tO
propagate aod nurfe up an oífspring, but
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educate aDd form ",ind, for tbe gre.t du,ies and ex–
lenfive denio.tions of life.
Society mun
bé
fupplied
fron! this origiDal nurfery wí,h ufeful mcmbers, and its
fairdi ornameats and fuppons.
The
miod ¡s.apt to
be
diflipatcd in its views, and
alb
of friendfhip and humanity; unlef. the former be direét–
ed lO' a particular objeét, ana the htter employed in a
particular province. Whcn meo once indulge tO this
diOipatioD, there is DO flopping their career; they grow
infenGble
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moral amaétions, .nd, .by obnruéting or im–
pairing the decent aod
regula~
exercife of the ·tender
and generQus,feelings of Ihe huinan he'r!, tl.ley in time
become uDqualified for, or averfe to, the formiDg
a
mo–
ral unino of fouls, which is the cement of focielY, and
the folirce of the puren domenic joys. Whereas a ra–
tional undepraved love,
and its
fair companion mar–
riage, callea-
a
maD's ..iewl, guide his heart to íts pro–
per objeét, and hy confiniog hi. afFeCtion
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that ohjeét
do rcally enlarge
its
¡nfluence and ufe. Bdides, it is
bu,
tOO evidenl from the eonduét of mankind, that the
common tits ·of humanity are tOOfecblc to engage and
interen the paffion. of Ihe generali,y in the afF.irs of fo–
ciety.
'rhe
conneétions of
neigh~o'.lrhood,
acquaintance,
aod
general intereourfe, are tOO wide
a
fieJd of a8-ionJor
m.ny; .nd ¡hofe of a public or community are fo for
more, and ·io which they eilhe'r care not or know not
how tO exert themfelves . Therefore nature, cver wiTe
and beDev91ent, by implan,ing tha, nrong (ympathy which
reign, between the individuals of each fex, anJ
by
urging
tb~tn
to
form
a
particular moral conoeétion, the (prioR
of
many
domdlic endearm:nts,
has
meafured out to each
pair
a
particular
fph~u
of aétioo, proportioned to thcir
"iews, and adapted tO their refpellive capacities. Be–
lides,
by
intereHing
them deepJy
in lhe conceros of their
own lítlle cirde, fhe has conneéted them more dofely
with fociety, which is compofed of particular famili e"
and bouod them down
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their good behaviour in tltaí
panicular communi,y to which they belong. T his
mo,
ni
conneétion is marriage
J
and this fphere 'of aétion is a
f. mily.
Of the conjugal .J1iance !he foJlowing are the na–
lurol Jaws . l . Mu!u
ti
r,Gelity to ,he marriage-loed.
J)in"Ydlty dc!fe:.tts lne very end
or
marr~age;
ddTolves
the oíl!.ural cemc:nt of
the
ctl;uion;
wca!u,:ns
the
moral
tie. the chicf firength of which líes in the reciproca·
tion of affetl.ion ; and, hy makiog the oJTspring uncer·
~ain,
dimini(hes the
care
and attachmcm necdrary to
theie education .
2 .
A
cOnrpir1tion of counrels and endeavours
~o
pro·
mote the comOlon ioterdt of the famiJy,
aod
tOeducate
their common offspring. In arder tO obferve [hefe laws,
it is nece(fary lO cultivate, both before and during the
married nate, the nriéten derency ond challity of m, p–
neTO, and a j un fenfe of what becomes their refpeétive
charaaers~
3. The union mun be inviolable ·.nd for life. Th.
nature of friendlhip, and particlllarly of Ihi. fpeeie, of
it, the educatio" of their ofFspring, and the order of
fociety, and of fucceílions which would otherwife be ex–
tremely perplexed, do aJl fcem to re'!,uire il. To pre–
ferve this uoion
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and render the matrimonial {late more
harOlonious and comfortable, a mutual enee", and ten·
derners
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a mutual deference and forbearance,
a
comOlU–
nicHio~
of advice, and allinance and authority, are ah·
folutely neceffary.
If
eithe, party keép wi!hin lbeir pro–
per departments, tbere oeed be no difputes abou( power
or fuperiority, and there will be none. They have
no
oppoúte
J
no reparate interens; and therefore there
ColO
be no jun ground ror oppofition of conduét.
From this detail, and the prefent llate of things,
in which there is pretty ·near
&
parity óf nUDlbers of
hoth fexes
J
it
is
evideot, that polygamy is· an unnatu·
ral. nate: and though it fhould be granted to be more
fruhful of children, which however it is not found tO
be; yet it
is
by no means fa lit for rearíDg miads;
whieh Ceems to be as mueh, if not more, the ímentíon
of Dature, than the propagation of hodles.
Of Parmlal Drlly.
T HI!. conneélion of parents with"' their children is a
natu ral confequence of the matrimonial coonell ion, and
,be duties which they owe them r.fuh as n.turally froOl
that conneétioo. The f..ble na'e of children, fubjeét tO
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many
waftts
and dangers. requires their incellaot care
:md aUentioD; their jgnorant and uneuhivaled minds de·
mand their continua1 infiruétion and culture.
Had hu·
man creatures come ioto the world Wilh the full Clrength
of
men, and lile weaknefs of rearan and yehemence of
pallions which prevai l in children, ,hey would have heen
tOO llrong or tOO llubborn 'to have: Juhmitted to the go–
vernmeot and
tn(il
uétion of lhei r parents,
BUl,
as lhey
werc defigned for a progreílion in knowledge and virtue,
it wa, proper th.a, the growth of ,heir bodics fhould kcep
pace with that of their minds, .len !he purpofes of tha,
progreffion fllOuld ha..
be~n
defeated. Among olher ad–
mirable purpofes which this gradual ex panfion of tbei r
outward
as
well as inward ílruélure fenes, tbis is o"oe,
th at it affor,d. ample fcope to the exorcife of many
!<JI–
d« anu generou. ' afFeétion., which fill up ,he domeílic
lift: with a beautiful varic:ty of dudes and cnjoymcDts;
and are of courfe a noble difcipline for the hean,. and an
hardy kind of education for the more honourahle and im–
ponant duties of publíc life.
The
abo\·c
mentioneJ
w.l.. ak
and ignorant fint e of chU–
dren, fctms plainly to inveH Iheir parents witlt fudI all–
¡holity